Holding on to her memory
Published 5:08 pm Wednesday, November 6, 2024
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Editorial
Tears flowed freely at a vigil in Columbiana as residents hugged each other and displayed their love to the family of Charity Lea Snow who was recently murdered.
Charity clearly left an impact on Columbiana that was evident for all to see as local residents continued to share stories online of meeting her and how simple exchanges at the Exxon gas station stuck with them. They told tales of a gentle soul who lived up to her namesake and showed hospitality to her customers.
During the vigil, another side to the life of Charity arose, one that spoke of the dark horrors of domestic violence—a terrible crime that is all too prevalent, and unfortunately, sometimes unanswered. Victims may find themselves trapped in a relationship that is cyclically abusive and one that sometimes escapes the attention of others until it is too late.
The loss of Charity not only leaves a hole in the community, but a permanent one in her family as they fight to provide for her two children and to cover the unexpected funeral expenses—in addition to burdening grief. Fortunately, through emotional support, love and generosity, the community is working together to fundraise and provide what they can to assist during this tragic time.
In the darkness of that night, Charity’s memory served as a bright beacon reminding the community of the dangers of domestic violence and its terrible consequences. However, it doesn’t have to end as simply a reminder.
Shelby County has brought back its Domestic Violence Court which seeks to end abusive domestic relationships through working with both parties. This moment can and should stay stick in our memories as we work together to ensure that people receive adequate help in order to prevent any more stories like Charity’s from happening.